90-Day Fiance: Brandan and Mary’s Toxic Relationship Is Making Rounds Online
90 Day Fiancé is a popular reality television series on TLC that follows the lives of couples who have applied or received a K-1 visa, which allows the foreign fiancé to enter the United States to marry their American partner. The couples have 90 days to get married, or the foreign fiancé must return to their home country.
The show provides an inside look at the challenges and adventures faced by these couples as they navigate cultural differences, family expectations, and the pressure of impending marriage. Each season features different couples, and viewers get to witness their journeys leading up to the wedding day.
The Toxic Relationship
Brandan and Mary, both 23 years old, have raised concerns among viewers due to their obsessive behavior this season. Brandan relocated to the Philippines to be with Mary after they connected online. Mary's intense jealousy caused problems and is making the rounds online.
Video Calling 24/7
In the world of "90 Day Fiancé," Brandan finds himself constantly glued to his phone, talking to his insecure girlfriend Mary. This habit persists even during mundane activities, like a routine teeth cleaning appointment (a must watch episode), sleeping, trips to the bathroom, and lunch with his family. Yes! Mary has to always be on the call with him.
Brandan Is Not Allowed To Talk To ANY Girl
The tension escalates between the young couple when Mary takes Brandan to her church in the Philippines. During the sermon, she repeatedly cautions him not to gaze at other girls, insisting that he focus solely on her and the priest.
Brandan approaches his breaking point as Mary forbids him from even glancing at other girls.
Pregnancy and Engagement
In a recent episode, Brandan revealed that they found privacy in Manila, where Mary's grandfather was working on a different island from where they live. This privacy allowed them to spend time together, and as expected, their relationship became more intimate. Mary expressed that she had no regrets about their relationship progressing in this way and the couple recently got engaged as Brandan awkwardly proposed to Mary following the news of the pregnancy.
The Constant Fights
Mary disclosed that their arguments escalated significantly after they became engaged. Brandan would shout at her, even slamming the door in her face. There was a video where Mary politely asked Brandan to lower the volume, but he instead increased it. His verbal abuse intensified, using derogatory language like, "F*** you, Mary." When things got heated, Brandan would leave the house, spend hours in the town square, and sleep on a stone bench. Seeing Mary later would further agitate him, making it difficult for him to calm down. Despite Brandan's claim of trying his best to care for Mary, she had valid reasons for her unhappiness.
Brandan Is Trapped
Brandan's situation in the Philippines reveals his heavy reliance on Mary. He lacks proficiency in the local language and resides in the house he constructed for Mary and her family. Given that Mary has the authority to evict him, he could find himself with nowhere to turn. His actions hint at potential regret over leaving his life in America, despite its possible discomfort and unhappiness. Brandan's decision to move to the Philippines was impulsive, and now he finds himself with a pregnant fiancée and no financial resources. While he might desire to return home, it appears too late for him to do so, unless Mary accompanies him.
